Do not rely on anyone but yourself

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It is an absolute blessing to be in the company of friends, family, peers, and those who you think may care about you. However, the reliance on these people can be crippling to your level of discipline, your opportunities, and freedom. Your ability to seek what you want in both your professional or personal life should not be dependent on someone's else availability, but rather your own. How long will you wait before you tell yourself to pursue this or that long after the aforementioned have not made themselves available for such pursuits. Go do what YOU want to do. Go visit that place, go enjoy that party, have that drink, have that meal at that restaurant, go workout alone, etc do not attach your motivation to other people's motivation level.

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